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Donor Concierge

San Rafael, CAFounded 2006

3.818 ratings · 17 reviews across 1 source, out of 5 stars. Jump to reviews.

About Donor Concierge

Donor Concierge is not a surrogacy agency in the usual sense. Based in San Rafael, California, and founded in 2006, it is a third-party fertility search service: rather than running its own in-house surrogate or donor program, it helps intended parents look for egg donors, sperm donors and gestational surrogates across a network of outside agencies and programs. For families, that means the search and coordination happen through Donor Concierge, while the match itself comes from a partner agency, and the medical care from the intended parents' own fertility clinic.

The company was founded by Gail Sexton Anderson, Ed.M., who serves as CEO; the Better Business Bureau lists Erika Brown as vice president. It operates as a for-profit corporation and, according to its website, is fully independent, with no agency partnerships and no referral fees paid to it by the agencies it searches. The agency says each client works with a dedicated case manager, and that surrogate candidates are screened against ASRM guidelines as well as the requirements of the client's own clinic.

Donor Concierge works with intended parents including LGBTQ+ and single parents, and with clients based outside the United States. Alongside surrogate searches, it offers egg and sperm donor searches. Related brands include Surrogate Concierge, a trademark filed by Donor Concierge, Inc. in 2019, and Tulip, a self-directed egg donor search platform.

The organization is a participating provider in the Men Having Babies Gay Parenting Assistance Program, which helps gay intended parents access discounted services. It has been a BBB Accredited Business since December 2015 and holds an A+ rating. Its accreditation details, along with fee and eligibility information, appear below.

Service model
Matching only
Team size
About 20
Founded
2006
Offices
1
Egg donors
Own program

Highlights

  • Works with LGBTQ+ and international intended parents
  • Verified member of Men Having Babies Gay Parenting Assistance Program (GPAP) participating provider, BBB Accredited Business (accredited since 12/22/2015, A+ rating)
  • Working with families for over 20 years

Reviews & reputation

Updated Sep 30, 2026
3.8
18 ratings
  • 5★12 5-star ratings
  • 4★0 4-star ratings
  • 3★0 3-star ratings
  • 2★2 2-star ratings
  • 1★4 1-star ratings

Combined from Google ratings.

What reviewers say

AI summary of 17 reviews · can make mistakes

Most reviewers describe a positive experience, often praising supportive, responsive case managers and a faster path to an egg donor or gestational carrier match than they expected. A meaningful minority were unhappy, citing fees they felt were unclear or poor value, searches that ended without a match, and profiles that did not fit their criteria or were already unavailable. A few also mention frustrations with professionalism and transparency.

Often praised

  • Supportive, responsive case managers
  • Faster matching than other routes
  • Access to many donor and carrier options

Worth asking about

  • Fee clarity, value and refund policy
  • Searches that end without a match
  • Relevance and availability of profiles shown

17 reviews match these filters.

  • Reviewer type not statedJun 9, 2026

    We couldn't have asked for a better experience with Candice and the Donor Concierge team. Candice was supportive throughout the process and would always make herself available. Thank you Candice!

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  • Reviewer type not statedMar 10, 2026

    Didn't deliver on expectations. We've been waiting for over a year for a match. Our friends are having better success with other agencies.

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  • Reviewer type not statedFeb 12, 2026

    Have used them three times now and had a great experience each time. Good to have a coach /advocate and expert along for the ride.

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  • Reviewer type not statedJan 21, 2026

    We worked with Joanne Zhang at Donor Concierge to find an egg donor and had a very good experience. We would recommend working with her. Needless to say, this can be a sensitive and emotional process and Joanne was very responsive and skilled at helping set expectations for the ups and downs. The donor search can feel extremely daunting and Joanne did an excellent job at helping us navigate the process!

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For intended parents

Who they work with

  • LGBTQ+ intended parentsYes
  • Single intended parentsNot published
  • International intended parentsYes
  • Surrogates living outside the U.S.Not published

Costs

  • Fee structureUnclear from public information
  • Agency feeNot published — ask the agency
  • Escrow providerNot published — ask the agency
  • Typical time to matchNot published — ask the agency
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Base compensation

Not published — ask the agency

Requirements

  • Age rangeNot published — ask the agency
  • Maximum BMINot published — ask the agency
  • Prior pregnanciesNot published — ask the agency
  • Prior C-sectionsNot published — ask the agency
  • Raising own childNot published — ask the agency
  • SmokingNot published — ask the agency
  • Citizenship or residencyNot published — ask the agency
  • States not acceptedNot published — ask the agency
  • Support personNot published — ask the agency

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